# Living with Dementia: When Older Adults Say Death Might Be Preferable
As people age and face declining health, particularly conditions like dementia that affect memory and independence, difficult conversations about quality of life become increasingly important. This Swiss study tackles a sobering question: are there certain health conditions that older adults would find worse than death itself? Understanding these preferences is crucial for geriatric psychiatry and mental health care, as it helps families and healthcare providers honor what matters most to patients when they can no longer speak for themselves.
The study surveyed 124 pairs of healthy older adults (average age 72) and the family members who might someday make medical decisions on their behalf—typically spouses or adult children. Participants evaluated 17 different health conditions, particularly focusing on impairments associated with dementia, such as not recognizing family members, losing the ability to care for oneself, or becoming entirely dependent on others. The findings were striking: more than half of the older adults rated eleven of these health states as equal to or worse than death. Their potential future decision-makers had remarkably similar views, with ten health states receiving the same harsh assessment from over half of this group. Importantly, when comparing responses within each family pair, there was strong agreement between what older adults wanted for themselves and what their relatives thought they would want.
These results reveal just how much value older adults place on cognitive function, independence, and maintaining their sense of self. The strong agreement between older adults and their family members is encouraging news—it suggests that when the time comes for surrogate decision-making, relatives may be well-positioned to honor their loved one’s wishes. However, it’s worth noting that all participants were currently healthy; research shows that people’s preferences sometimes shift when they actually experience health challenges, as they adapt and find meaning in ways they hadn’t anticipated.
For healthcare providers working with older adults, particularly in psychiatry and dementia care, this research underscores the importance of having frank, early conversations about goals of care before crisis strikes. Tools that ask patients to compare health states with death—so-called “States Worse Than Death” approaches—can open these difficult discussions and ensure that treatment plans truly reflect what patients value most. For families, the message is clear: talk openly about these preferences now, while your loved one can express their wishes, recognizing that maintaining dignity, mental clarity, and independence often matter more than simply prolonging life at any cost.
Source Information
Original Title: Is it worse than death? Appraisal of health states among older adults and their relatives in Switzerland.
Authors: Fischer G, Hock U, Schwegler V, Buchmann A, Gruber E
Journal: Health and quality of life outcomes (Oct 2025)
PubMed ID: 41121253
DOI: 10.1186/s12955-025-02439-y
This summary was generated using AI to make recent geriatrics and frailty research more accessible. Please refer to the original article for complete details.
